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Therapy for Healing Depression
Psychotherapy, as I practice it, places a large emphasis on facilitating your self-discovery. It involves us getting to know the...

Shelley Klammer
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Your Heroine's Journey
As you grow beyond your familial conditioning into your unique vitality, it is helpful to be aware of the mythical path that underpins...

Shelley Klammer
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Healing Depression With Gratitude
Gratitude Practice for Healing Depression Painful emotions, if you "practice" them over time, will weaken your will to attain higher...

Shelley Klammer
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Intimate Relationship Checkup
Dr. John Gottman discerned seven components of healthy relationships, and it is helpful to contemplate them to see if you are improving...

Shelley Klammer
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What is Focusing Psychotherapy?
Inner Relationship Focusing Inner Relationship Focusing is a version of Focusing psychotherapy developed by Barbara McGavin and Ann...

Shelley Klammer
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How to Heal Chronic Negativity
A negativity bias is the notion that even when of equal intensity, things of a more negative nature (e.g. unpleasant thoughts, emotions,...

Shelley Klammer
3 min read


How to Heal Your Inner Child
The Adult Inner Child Many of us live primarily from our inner child psychology. As you go about your adult life, some of your life...

Shelley Klammer
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Reconciling Inner Conflict
The Positive Aspects of Polarized Parts An inner conflict is a polarization in which two opposite parts are fighting inside. When you are...

Shelley Klammer
3 min read


Free Tonglen Worksheet
The word Tonglen, or Tong Len, is Tibetan for “giving and receiving”, with Tong meaning “giving” and Len referring to “receiving”. This...

Shelley Klammer
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Sensing Into Your Growth Edge
Psychiatrist Sigmund Freud originally described the conscious mind, which consists of all the thoughts that you are aware of, as the tip...

Shelley Klammer
5 min read


Overcoming Anticipatory Fear
"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt...

Shelley Klammer
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Inner Child Therapy Meditation
This is a sample lesson from my Inner Child Therapy Course Compassion for Your Inner Child "The cry we hear from deep in our hearts...

Shelley Klammer
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Focusing Journal Process
Focusing is a path of self-inquiry that welcomes nuanced experiences that we often overlook. We gently bring awareness into our bodies,...

Shelley Klammer
5 min read


Cultivating Your Depth of Awareness
To enrich your depth of awareness, I encourage you to track your inner life between your therapy sessions by keeping daily notes that...

Shelley Klammer
2 min read


What is Your Enneagram Personality Type?
The Enneagram is a personality system of nine archetypes. According to the Enneagram, each of the nine personality types is defined by a...

Shelley Klammer
5 min read


How to Heal Core Wounds From Childhood
The Root of Core Pain - "I am suffering and separate from love because..." Often without knowing it, each of us has such devastating...

Shelley Klammer
11 min read


How to Forgive
This forgiveness exercise is for you if you cannot reconcile with someone who has hurt you. This process is for your personal emotional...

Shelley Klammer
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What is the Golden Shadow?
Your Brightest Self When you consider your shadow, you might think that it contains only the ashamed aspects of yourself that you have...

Shelley Klammer
3 min read


What is the Unconscious Mind?
You likely think that you are the primary personality that you present to the world. This is why it can feel challenging to access your...

Shelley Klammer
5 min read


How to Keep a Daily Depth Journal
Seeing the Deeper Nuances of Your Day Keeping a daily log of the inner and outer movements of your life can be a profoundly deepening...

Shelley Klammer
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